Loving Them

What's Up Doc?

Print

Marriage and the Communication Dilemma.

We have a teenage daughter who is delightful, energetic and responsible. That is, she responds to a voice within her that listens to a beat I can't quite hear. I have my own (inner) voices and although I am not schizoid yet, I do hear voices from my Swiss past that create dissonance with this good daughter as we talk about chores, friendships, social media and homework. We define certain words differently - clean room is one, bedtime another. These words convey certain values and carry meaning that without a strenuous family seminar on their proper usage, we both believe we actually understood each other when in fact I was talking space alien and she was talking street.

Add a comment

Read more...

Loving - is a Gift

Print

We were never meant to build silos around our families. Yet that is what we do and, whatever the reason for it, it doesn't serve our relationships well.

Add a comment

Read more...

Love's Day is Every Day

Print

There’s a great deal of advice floating around our there – “ten tips for lovers;” “what to buy so you don’t look like you’re buying her off;” “create a dreamy evening just for him” – all good, all doable. But we had to ask (it’s our job) this: “what does Valentine’s Day really have to do with our marriage?” Here’s a couple of thoughts to add to your kitchen drawer clippings:

Add a comment

Read more...

Growing up - the art of loving in marriage

Print

“I’ve had to do a lot of growing up in my marriage and have had to learn how to stop pointing fingers and instead take inventory and look at what my responsibility is”... “being a worshipped rock star it’s easy to convince yourself that you deserve love and you should be loved, but I’ve had to learn how to be better at how to love someone else” - Bono (introducing the release of his latest CD)

Add a comment

Read more...

Marriage Coaching

Couples can rebirth and reimagine their relationship and create new pathways to intimacyMarriage Counseling – physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual.

Redesign your marriage and create magnificence in your relationship.

Couples Workshops

Couples thrive in a learning environment with other couples. Couples WorkshopWe offer full day, half day, and weekend workshops on the rebirth of marriage.

Click here to learn of opportunities in your area.

Relationship Training

Marriage challenges – crises in communication, money arguments, coldness and even affairs are really opportunities in disguise. Relationship Troubles

All marriages need and desire growth. 

Transform challenges in your relationship into new life in your marriage.