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Marriage Challenge Number One

by Stephen on November 25, 2009

The most difficult challenge I have in coaching couples into song is this: belief. One word, belief. We all seem hard wired to exaggerate what’s missing in our relationships and to minimize what’s good.
So what do I want couples to believe? What is it that healthy couples carry around with them that struggling couples lack? [...]

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Marriage can Help your Self Discovery

by Stephen on November 19, 2009

It’s no mystery to any of us married for more than a little while that marriage is both opportunity and challenge. Challenge because you signed on for a personal growth course when you said ‘I do’ and are just now realizing it.
Challenge because the one you chose isn’t at all who you thought they [...]

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The Self Help Check Out Line for Marriage

by Stephen on September 12, 2009

Automation has its advantages. But I generally resist them. The supermarket where I shop recently installed a ‘self help’ line. They made it user friendly and I learned how to do it for those times when I all I need is a loaf of bread.
But I miss my friend the checker. She always asks about [...]

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Self Help Your Marriage – The Challenge of Happiness

by Stephen on August 25, 2009

Most of us think the self help industry – books, articles, videos – is for us. We want more ‘self esteem,’ we desire to increase personal effectiveness, we long to leverage our income making into wealth creation. All good. But have you thought that your marriage, the marriage itself, could use some ‘self help?’
Marriage is [...]

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